Tuesday 15 February 2011

hard times

Well I can honestly say I have had a few difficult days and have been rather tearful and anxious. I will not discuss it further here as it is a public forum and unfortunately people who are not real friends can access my blog. People are not always what they seem and this can be a hard lesson to learn. Some people will never look out for you and will never be on your side no matter how they appear to the rest of the world they can be evil and devious and plotting your downfall. Others are literally wolves in sheeps clothing, as you can be fooled into thinking they will support you but when push comes to shove they are there to stab you in the back along with your known enemies. However every cloud has a silver lining and sometimes you realise where the light is shining at the end of the tunnel so you know you have an escape!


I have just seen this on Mel's fab blog and this is what I am gonna aim to do

I am bored of crying now, fed up of my eyes and face hurting so I am gonna try to 'think happy thoughts' and get myself into a better place and leave bad people and bad places behind xxx


  1. Seending you furry hugs and tissues (not sure how furry tissues would affect your eyes though :c))

  2. Sorry to hear this. Please remember that you do have lots of genuine cyber friends (& hopefully real ones too) that you can call on for help if you need it. {{Hugs}}

  3. Sweetie - I'm so sorry to hear about your rough time. I'm touched that my little post and photo have helped - and hearing that has helped me to feel better, too. Sending lots of hugs your way, and I hope things imrpove for you very soon xx

  4. Oh Ruth I'm sorry to read that you have been so upset and as qwiksave says there are lots of us out here who would support you whatever. Hope it helps you to know that we are here for you if you need us. And remember 'Everything passes whether good or ill' xx

  5. Ruth...feel my arms around you in a great big hug...! Just remember that you have a lot of people who care about you! Try to think of one thing everyday that you are thankful for and soon you will see that the world can be a kind, caring place too!
    Lots of love and hugs,

  6. Awwwww, furry, so sorry you are feeling blurgh. Remember we are here if you want to vent, cry, moan whatever xxx

  7. I was someone also in need of Mel's fab post ... sending you a hug.

  8. Great big friendly hugs to you,hope everthing turns out well for you

  9. Ruth, I have just copied this from the top of your blog:
    About Me
    surrey, United Kingdom
    I am me and I like it most of the time and I hope u do too!

    I think it's a great affirmation and very true! I don't know you well, but I do wish you well. I am sorry you're having a rotten time and I hope things begin to improve. At least you are being positive and trying hard to improve life for yourself.
    As for the "wolves in sheep's clothing" - let them go away and look for scraps!
    Cyber-hugs to you! XXX

  10. So sorry to hear of your problems....sending you hugs....and glad Mel's post helped you.

  11. Sorry to hear you are having a bad time, huge hugs from me